I have just started Carey guides and I have two people already selected to start. The primary one is a female. While discussing the use of Carey Guides with her we went over several topics and to be honest I let her select the guide dealing with Anger. I did not think it would be that one until she spoke about her anger towards her family and friends. So in essence I allowed her to select the topic. Has anyone found this to be useful or is she merely manipulating the facts?